jUST IS MY OPINION....JUST SAYING.

Submitted by ANGELnWard14 on Fri, 12/28/2012 - 02:39.
Submitted by westward on Fri, 08/31/2012 - 10:09.

Pretty damn far down. (BUT NOT AS FAR AS YOU HAVE GONE DOWN!) 

(GUY ALWAYS DID THAT...WRONG OR NOT....WHAT MADE HIM THE TARGET OF YOUR AFFECTIONS? WAS HE THE EASY TARGET THIS MONTH? TIS TIS) 

Looking at these latest posts, mostly copy and paste, (excepting the poor soul trying to save a school building),

I realize that the end for me here has come.(bye BYE BULLY)

I have given up trying to write any thing sensible here. (WHAT EXACTLY IS YOUR OPINION OF SENSIBLE? WE COULD LIST IT IN THE ABOUT REALNEO PAGE AS A REQUIREMENT...WRITE SENSIBLY!) 

There is the pro-gun posting, with the pandering of the administrator dealing with his middle class guilt, allowing the site to be swamped, to drown, in illegal copy and paste about guns, violence, earthquakes, solar flares, and just the weirdest of the weird.(SO, DOES THIS MEAN THAT SINCE YOU DON'T GET TO DICTATE--YOU ARE LEAVING?) YOU ARE SUCH THE CRITICAL EDITOR OF EVERYONE'S POSTS & BLOGS...TIS TIS. NO SCANNING, NO OVERLOOKING THINGS YOU DON'T AGREE WITH OR OFFERING CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISMS...JUST PURE RIDICULE...YOU'RE A MASTER OF THAT ART OF COMMUNICATION.) 

There is the whining and highjacking of post to go on about corruption. (boohoo...I DO LIKE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT THE CORRUPTION IN THIS TOWN THAT REMAINS AND THAT HAS HISTORICALLY DESTROYED OUR COMMUNITY AT LARGE....DID IT GO AWAY? IF SO---THEN I'LL STOP SPEAKING UP ABOUT THE CORRUPTION THAT PERMEATES OUR TOWN TO THIS DAY!)

The last couple of weeks just settles it for me.

 20 children die at the hands of a gun man, and what does realneo do? Allow postings of pro gun copy and paste. Of course, admin would take the position that one should write a counter point, but why would anyone write a counter to material that is not original, and is poorly written by the original writer before it was stolen and pasted here? (ONCE AGAIN---YOU DICTATE RULES THAT ARE SADLY NOT HELPFUL... BUT YOU DON'T ARGUE THE GUN  POINTS BASED ON FACTS ALREADY OUT THERE, NOW DO YOU?) SOLDIERS, KIDS, AND MUCH MORE ARE DYING DAILY IN AMERICA BY GUNS, CARS, AND CANCERS...NOT VERY NOTABLE NORMALLY...BUT THIS GUY GOT NATIONAL ATTENTION....SERIOUSLY PATHETIC THAT HE GOT ALL THAT ATTENTION AND THOSE KIDS DIED---BUT HERE YOU GO AGAIN STOMPING YOUR FEET ON GUY ABOUT HIS POSITION ON THE MATTER WHICH YOU CANNOT HELP TO HATE--INSTEAD OF RESPECTFULLY DISAGREEING...NO NOT YOU.) 

In Illinois, Child Deaths By Firearms Exceed Those In Car Crashes ...

Chicago Homicides Outnumber U.S. Troop Killings In Afghanistan

Chicago: 400 Gun Deaths in 2012. And Counting. | The Truth About Guns

 

Then there is the matter of the family with a minor that was outed as a survivor of rape and incest. THe family has been named, the address given, and a newer post that suggest that the survivor will need to come to terms with the fact that she may have enjoyed being raped.

      YES, WE SEE THAT YOUR STANDARDS ARE TO KEEP THE SECRETS....HIDE THEM....AND IT'S OBVIOUS THAT YOUR STATEMENT REFLECTS THE MENTALITY OF PEOPLE WHO HIDE SEXUAL ABUSE. WE DIDN'T OUT HER....SHE WAS LIBERATED BEFORE THE STORY WAS POSTED AND  THEY  SHOULDN'T BE SHAMED BY YOUR ATTEMPTS TO COVER UP THE UGLY TRUTH. YOUR UGLY RECEPTION AND HATRED FOR ME HAVE ALLOWED YOUR ANTENNAS TO MISREPRESENT THE STATEMENT....WHICH WAS MADE...YOU ARE MERGING CONCEPTS...BUT EITHER WAY-YOU ARE THE ONE ATTEMPTING TO SINK TO A LEVEL OF MISREPRESENTING THE CONCEPT THAT VICTIMS OF MOLESTATION MAY EXPERIENCE PHYSICAL PLEASURE & STIMULATION THAT MAKES RECOVERY FROM THE VICTIMIZATION DIFFICULT. IT HAPPENS ALL THE FRICKEN TIME....BUT I GUESS YOU NEVER DEALT WITH THAT AREA OF LIFE????????????????????????? 

I EDITED THAT POST TO REMOVE THE PERSONAL LINKS. I'LL OWN THAT POOR CHOICE....BUT MY STATEMENTS---I WON'T APOLOGIZE TO YOU OR ANYONE FOR MY OPINIONS...EVEN IF THEY OFFEND YOU....GET A GRIP....

YOUR ACTIONS OFFEND PEOPLE TOO.

YOUR SCORN, YOUR TIT FOR TAT CONDESCENDING REMARKS TO HURT PEOPLE AND DEVALUATE THEIR WORK---IS PATHETIC....IN MY OPINION.

NO ONE CAN MEASURE UP TO YOUR STANDARDS---AND TRUTHFULLY---I'D RATHER DIE THAN ATTEMPT TO MEASURE UP TO SUCH A JUDGMENTAL, INCONSIDERATE, SELF CENTERED JERK.

YOU PUT YOUR HATRED AHEAD OF THAT FAMILY. YOU NEVER GAVE A FRICKEN HELL ABOUT THEM...JUST SCOOT THEIR POOR STORY ALONG...DON'T SHARE IT....

YOU DON'T REACT WITH SOMETHING PRODUCTIVE....NO INSTEAD YOU JUST IMPLODE EVERYONE'S ENERGIES WITH YOUR DELETIONS AND THE LOSS OF POSTS, BLOGS, AND COMMENTS BECAUSE THAT'S THE ONLY POWER FOR ATTENTION YOU HAVE TODAY.

I AM SO GLAD THAT ANOTHER BULLY IS LEAVING THE PLAYGROUND...AREN'T YOU PROUD TO DELETE ALL THE COMBINED WORK THROUGH YOUR DELETIONS? woohoo...BOOHOO.... 

Talk about lack of standards!!

This ending has been a long time coming. I had hoped that this site could be saved, especially after Norm left, taking his anger with him. However, this being the last site that has allowed Guy Templeton Black to drown it in the weird copy and paste, so be it.

The site had its days. (WAS THAT DURING THE PRIME OF CORRUPTION?) 

There were some good contributors. (CORRUPT)

I have enjoyed reading the earlier posts, from years ago....GLAD YOU FOUND SOME ENJOYMENT HERE...NICE THAT YOU FOUND A POSITIVE....

Too bad. (OPINION)

 

 JUST MY OPINION OF YOUR DELETABLE RANT...HAPPY NEW YEAR.

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mY opINion IS THAT OF MY EMPLOYER......

THIS IS THE OPINION OF ANOTHER....

 

How far down can Realneo go????

Submitted by westward on Fri, 08/31/2012 - 10:09.

Pretty damn far down.

Looking at these latest posts, mostly copy and paste, (excepting the poor soul trying to save a school building), I realize that the end for me here has come.

I have given up trying to write any thing sensible here. There is the pro-gun posting, with the pandering of the administrator dealing with his middle class guilt, allowing the site to be swamped, to drown, in illegal copy and paste about guns, violence, earthquakes, solar flares, and just the weirdest of the weird.

There is the whining and highjacking of post to go on about corruption.

The last couple of weeks just settles it for me. 20 children die at the hands of a gun man, and what does realneo do? Allow postings of pro gun copy and paste. Of course, admin would take the position that one should write a counter point, but why would anyone write a counter to material that is not original, and is poorly written by the original writer before it was stolen and pasted here?

Then there is the matter of the family with a minor that was outed as a survivor of rape and incest. THe family has been named, the address given, and a newer post that suggest that the survivor will need to come to terms with the fact that she may have enjoyed being raped.

Talk about lack of standards!!

This ending has been a long time coming. I had hoped that this site could be saved, especially after Norm left, taking his anger with him. However, this being the last site that has allowed Guy Templeton Black to drown it in the weird copy and paste, so be it.

The site had its days. There were some good contributors. I have enjoyed reading the earlier posts, from years ago.

Too bad.

So please excuse me for high jacking my own original post. This will be deleted soon, as I will not unpublish. When I am gone, I wish to leave nothing behind.

Debbie Webb

 

 

As of January 2013, more Westward comments brought this response about this matter....

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DO NOT READ THIS IF YOU CANNOT HANDLE OPINIONS OF RAPE AND MOLESTATION VICTIMS IN RESPONSE TO THE ABOVE POST.

 

fOR WESTWARD.............ARE YOU A VICTIM OF RAPE? ARE YOU TRAINED IN RAPE ISSUES? HAVE YOU EVER DEALT WITH RAPE ISSUES OR MOLESTATION ISSUES DIRECTLY? SERIOUSLY. ARE YOU SPECIALLY TRAINED IN THIS SUBJECT AREA? DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA ABOUT IT???? AS A VICTIM OF BOTH ISSUES---I'D LIKE TO KNOCK YOU OUT FOR YOUR CHOICES AND ACTIONS...BUT THAT'S NOT SOCIETALLY ACCEPTABLE, SO I'LL TELL YOU HOW YOU MAKE ME FEEL RAPED OVER AND OVER AGAIN WITH YOUR OWN VERSION OF YOUR ACTIONS AFTER THE INITIAL POST REQUESTING HELP FOR THIS FAMILY!!!! YOU MAKE ME FEEL LIKE THIS YOUNG LADY SHOULD HIDE AWAY, FEEL SHAME, AND LIVE IN SECLUSION TO SATIATE YOUR PERPETRATOR OPINIONS ABOUT RAPE VICTIMS. GET OFF THAT BANDWAGON AND ALLOW HER TO LIVE A GOOD LIFE WITHOUT THE SHAME YOU ARE EXPECTING.

 

Our community and the victim should be enraged with the person who actually perpetuated a negative, social rape upon this victim....and I believe it's spelled out by that individual right here in their own words...(SEE WESTWARDS COMMENTS BELOW AND ABOVE). apparently they feel like some kind of hero in this case....think hard about this appalling reality....I'm sad for the fact that no one in that ccommunity was able to help this family with items of relief. I am appalled to no end that a charletton pretended to be that family's friend by going around dogging out the people who spoke about the issues at hand...and then this smart alleck attempted to twist that info recklessly and dangerously, not only to the community via voice and email spectacles, but also directly to the victims' faces....Surreal.

 

When this young woman grows up and retrospectively realizes that she has ABSOLUTELY NO REASON to feel shame, embarrassment, and humiliation for things that happened to her as a child, I pray she achieves all of her dreams. As a young victim; I pray she walks tall, holds her head high, and looks folks in the eyes without shame for the things she survived. I pray she knows in her heart that she has many sisters and brothers in our world who have survived victimization and went on to have successful, happy lives. I hope she doesn't beat herself up or hide from the things that she experienced. I hope that she is built up by people who actually know about this type of victimization; not by wicked reckless idiots attempting to "feel sorry for her!" She doesn't need your Pity. She needs your compassion and understanding. She's an amazing person with endless opportunities...and if she chooses to leave the community of Tremont---let her know that there's an amazing world out there to be travelled....but to enjoy that world away from her roots..... Not to run away from things. Even after the damage that is alledged by all of us against one another, I hope that young woman looks deep inside herself and finds the spirit to grow up and proudly conquer all obstacles in her way---including the misconception of social rape. The world is not staring at her---her face is unknown...her name is unknown except to a few. Another woman is added to the countless others who've endured similar things....she's got an entire world of love to count on when little folks are trying to complicate matters with their pathetic actions.

So help me God, life is not perfect for anyone. Maybe she has tons to share and teach the world around her....shamelessly. Perhaps she's in lots of transition now and needs lots of support and time to heal her soul....but she's alive and breathing. She's got a fighting chance to overcome the odds---don't take those opportunities away from her....(Westward---you are inhibiting her growth and healing process with the drama you perpetuated herein and in that community directly... You were so hyper vigilant to attempt to protect her that you became the person who spread the word and made people aware of something that they were clueless about.)

MISINFORMATION FROM YOU is the key.....Think about how YOU>>>>>>>>>victimized her and the community by misleading them with your irrational, slanderous, and reckless statements. You are a victimizer. You make me sick and I want to personally thank you for exploiting your very own true colors in your post below....it sure spells out all the effort you put into socially raping this young woman and the rest of us!!! Surreal..........................................You are clueless how you are guilty, that's the worst part. Thanks for your heroic efforts to OUT this case example. Truly upsetting to several other victims as well who called me to react to this post below.....sad how you don't get it.

Guy T Black e-mails porn but outs rape survivor

This whole rape thing is all over the community.------------------ (HOW??????) >>>>

you go on to answer how by saying:>>>> When people ask how was a family outed, I copied and sent the posting.

The girl survived rape. Now a different social rape is happening as a results of this public posting. --No doubt...because someone was telling folks & emailing them. You made it your personal mission to communicate this entire thing NEGATIVELY???? """OUTED"""" hmmm...

I e-mailed realneo asking that the family name be redacted; just the name. No response. ( bless your Help! )

I e-mailed Guy T Black, and asked him to remove it. I even reminded him of how appalled he was when he was outed for e-mailing hard core pornography to others.
No response.

>>>>>>>>>>>I talked to the family yesterday. I listened as the survivor talked about her hopes for a better life. ----Why exactly did you feel the need to exploit it and rub in her face negatively???? You did that in my opinion.

Society is cruel to victims of rape.-----And you are one of the biggest perpetrators of cruel society...making this all so so very ugly.

That is why responsible journalist do not release their names. The fact that this is a minor makes this whole thing worse.

She is going to have to leave the neighborhood to survive the social rape if she wants a real future.----WHY????? Because you ran around telling everyone?

Before you all go off and castigate me for posting this, know that nothing that you can say or do can cause me anymore pain than looking into the face of this young child, and knowing the injustice done to her, by the physical rapist, and the social rape that goes on and on. ----you are NO BETTER THAN THE RAPIST....You seem to have taken joy in seeing that pain and regurgitating it upon all the world....YOU ARE SICK!

It sickens me to know that the author of this posting is also the distributor of hard core porn. If others don't get the irony here, well, that is even more sickening.
>>>>>Some of the comments above are slanderous and reckless in my opinion. You are so busy spreading your "hate for GTB" that you missed the boat!

I feel Raped, victimized, and violated by the choices of Westward by and through her actions as outlined in her own comments. So, do I say that Westward is a RAPIST????? omg...that would be unacceptable right? But isn't it all a matter of opinion? I feel raped by your choices,Westward...and I waited weeks to reply just to calm down, but I am enraged by how you reacted to this all.

Always Appreciative, "ANGELnWard14"

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AMEN...AMEN...AMEN..

Thank you Dianna...that, is "WHY"...I left, the first time...I had been double thinking of returning, just very very recently...BUT...oh well???  I guess ...I guess... I guess...by, the time... I begin, to start "writing" there, is "ALWAYS" "someone" to "Blow off "THEIR" Fireworks...just, Why can't others "Not Read"...if, they DON"T like???  Thou shall not judge less they want to be judged....HAPPY NEW YEAR 2013....UGH...All I have to say...IS LEAVE GUY  BE...He does'nt hurt anyone ....IN "MY" OPINION...Everyone has their right to their own opinion...isn't "THIS" still AMERICA????